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Understanding Japanese Women!
I recently found this extremely “cool and convenient” website called Japan Love Hotels at www.japan-love-hotels.com. It is a new directory of love hotels in Japan IN ENGLISH. (The only one of its kind as far as my research has revealed to me.)
Each hotel listing has the name and address in English and in Japanese along with the phone number and a link to the hotel’s website.
Many a man interested in dating Japanese women has probably been accused of succumbing to “yellow fever.” I get accused from time to time of promoting it. So in this article, I’d like to address the following two points:
The “yellow fever” we’re talking about isn’t the disease from South America and Africa, it’s the fetish some men have with dating ONLY Japanese (or any Asian) women.
The term carries with it some very nasty implications that a man who has “contracted” yellow fever is somehow a… well… perverted psycho deviant (or something similar.) He degrades Japanese women, looks down on them, and treats them not as human beings but rather as objects.
With that definition in hand, let’s get to the meat of the discussion…
There are many men who, with an almost indescribable feeling of desperation, refuse to let go of an ex-girlfriend (Japanese or otherwise) or oppose the notion of giving up on any potential girlfriend. You can’t get her out of your mind. You eat, drink, and breathe her essence every waking moment. Your heart aches with the thought of not having her… not being with her…
Maybe you’re one of them. Unfortunately, this behavior is far from being healthy.
About 3 or 4 years ago while visiting my favorite forum on Japan, I came across the following question posted by one of its members:
“What kind of men are Japanese women attracted to?”
There were quite a few replies, but one of them stood out above the rest:
“All you have to be is a man from the West!”
While it is true that just being a Western man is often enough to get dates with Japanese women, there is a vital point being over-looked — and that point is longevity.
If you’re thinking about finding a Japanese wife or are contemplating marrying your current Japanese girlfriend, then “buyer beware” — for there is a part of Japanese culture that Western men interested in a long-term relationship with a Japanese woman need to be aware of.
For most Western men, this probably won’t be a major problem between you and your “potential” Japanese wife. But let me tell you up front what might be in store for some of you…
