Japanese Culture is a MAJOR influence your relationships with Japanese women

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Japanese women are mysterious in more than just outward appearances – they have a deep, inner mystery called culture that makes building successful relationships with them a challenge to anyone lacking the knowledge of the Japanese dating and relationship customs.

Contrary to what many men believe, all women world-wide do not act exactly the same way in romantic relationships. What may be correct behaviour for a Western woman to do in a relationship could possibly be rude, embarrassing, or both to a Japanese woman. What may be considered an extremely loving gesture a Japanese girlfriend gives to her man may offer absolutely no feelings of love and affection to the man from his cultural point of view.

This is the reason for the creation of Japan Dating Tips and the e-book Understanding Japanese Women: to help men all over the world get the much needed advice and cultural tips to help them succeed with making a Japanese woman into a Japanese girlfriend, improving their relationship with a current Japanese girlfriend, and even smoothing out the bumps men encounter with a Japanese wife.

Country Girl: Is she a Japanese woman?

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Many years ago when I was still working as an English teacher here in Japan I had the opportunity to teach an amazing Japanese woman…

I was sitting down in my favorite cafe where I taught most of my private English students. Across from me sat my new student — a 43 year-old Japanese woman who had lived in America for over 13 years.

I was excited to get this student, not because she was a “Japanese woman among Japanese women,” but because at first listen her English appeared to be almost spot-on perfect. As we talked, I could tell that her English proficiency was just the surface of her abilities. Her gestures, facial expressions, posture, and even how she walked told me that she really had absorbed so much more than just the English language.

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Yellow Fever and Japanese Women

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Many a man interested in dating Japanese women has probably been accused of succumbing to “yellow fever.” I get accused from time to time of promoting it. So in this article, I’d like to address the following two points:

• Is simply being attracted to Japanese women considered yellow fever?
• What I believe REAL yellow fever is.

The “yellow fever” we’re talking about isn’t the disease from South America and Africa, it’s the fetish some men have with dating ONLY Japanese (or any Asian) women.

The term carries with it some very nasty implications that a man who has “contracted” yellow fever is somehow a… well… perverted psycho deviant (or something similar.) He degrades Japanese women, looks down on them, and treats them not as human beings but rather as objects.

With that definition in hand, let’s get to the meat of the discussion…

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The Need to Move On

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There are many men who, with an almost indescribable feeling of desperation, refuse to let go of an ex-girlfriend (Japanese or otherwise) or oppose the notion of giving up on any potential girlfriend. You can’t get her out of your mind. You eat, drink, and breathe her essence every waking moment. Your heart aches with the thought of not having her… not being with her…

Maybe you’re one of them. Unfortunately, this behavior is far from being healthy.

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Bridging the Cultural Gap with Japanese Women

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About 3 or 4 years ago while visiting my favorite forum on Japan, I came across the following question posted by one of its members:

“What kind of men are Japanese women attracted to?”

There were quite a few replies, but one of them stood out above the rest:

“All you have to be is a man from the West!”

While it is true that just being a Western man is often enough to get dates with Japanese women, there is a vital point being over-looked — and that point is longevity.

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